Sometimes, as well as selling leather bondage gear in the UK, we at Affordable Leather Products get asked other questions such as What should I do when I go to visit a Pro Domme? Following on from our previous article about How to Contact a Professional Dominatrix, here are some recommendations:
Presuming that you've not annoyed her on the phone or been disrespectful in your e-mail and you have successfully arranged a session, here are a few things to remember when you go to visit a professional Dominatrix:
* Before you go: HAVE A SHOWER! No Professional Mistress wants to have a sweaty, smelly slave turn up on her doorstep unless you want her to use a scrubbing brush on you whilst you stand under a cold shower! And brush your teeth or use mouthwash too.
* Don't be early! If you arrive half an hour before the time you've arranged she may still be finishing with another client or getting dressed or even putting her shopping away. Find a café or wait in your car, but don't sit right outside her place, park around the corner.
* Don't be late! Make sure you allow plenty of time to get to her premises. If you break down or there's unforeseen delays such as a road accident, as soon as you know you may be late, contact the Lady immediately. Failure to do this could result in you not getting a session at all.
* Do not go into full-on submissive mode outside her door. If she has an entry phone, just say "Hello, my name is XYZ, I'm here to see you." Do not address her as Mistress, Goddess or anything else, her neighbours might not know and it's none of their business.
* When she answers the door, just politely say "Good afternoon" (or morning, as appropriate!), don't kneel, grovel or do anything to potentially compromise her privacy.
* Do what you're told. If she says "Come in and stand here", do that. Nothing else. Don't go wandering around or poke your nose into anywhere you like.
* Have your Tribute ready in a pocket or envelope, but don’t clutch it in your hand or immediately thrust it at her. Also try to get clean notes, handing over a crumpled fistful of grubby fivers will not endear you to her.
* Consider taking a gift. It doesn't have to be anything spectacular for a first visit, a bottle of wine or a bunch of flowers are possible options. Even better, visit her website and check to see if she has a wish-list, if so, picking something off that would be very sensible.
* Wait to be told what to do. Once you enter her premises, she is in control, so respect this.
* If a professional Lady comes to visit you in your hotel room, take her bag if she has one, then offer to take her coat and hang it up neatly on a hanger. Escort her to a chair and hold it for her, then stand and wait until she gives you further instructions.
What happens at the start of a Professional Domination session?
See the next guide from Affordable Leather Products where we will give you some idea of what will happen before your Pro Domme session actually starts.
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