Wednesday, 6 April 2016

What do SSC and RACK mean?

What do SSC and RACK mean?




An introduction by Affordable Leather Products

When you are starting out in the world of BDSM, there are some terms you may come across which are confusing to the newcomer, so here's a quick guide to a couple of them which we hope will help. Please note that this is not a comprehensive discussion of the subject, but it's a good starting place. There are other online resources which you can look up for more details.

What does SSC mean?


SSC stands for Safe, Sane and Consensual, three of the most important factors to bear in mind when you are starting to engage in BDSM play. Here's a short explanation of each:

Safe: This term is not simply a matter of "safer sex" (using protection to avoid STIs) but an overall recommendation to ensure that nothing goes wrong in your play.

Before engaging in a BDSM session, have a think about what you are going to do. If you are going to engage in Bondage using leather wrist and ankle cuffs, do you have a way of getting your subject out in a hurry if there's a problem? Consider, for example, if they're spread-eagled on a bed and suddenly get cramp (which is definitely not fun!) can you release their bindings in a matter of seconds? If you're using padlocks, do they all open with the same key? If they don't, it can take extra seconds to find which key opens which lock.

Another example is if you have someone secured in a standing position, eg using Door Restriction Bars. If they pass out, could you get them down to the ground safely when their weight is pulling on their cuffs making them difficult to undo?

Similarly, when engaged in Shibari (Japanese rope bondage), it may take several minutes to remove a complicated harness, time which you don't want to take.

In the above examples, having a pair of EMT Shears on hand to cut through cuffs or ropes may be the best option, it's far better to cut through an expensive piece of equipment than have to explain what happened when the ambulance arrives...!

If you engage in impact play, such as flogging, whipping etc and it gets very intense, what will you do if you draw blood? Not only may you need plasters to cover a cut, but you'll need to think about how you are going to clean the toy you were playing with.

A little consideration of these factors before a scene starts can save a whole lot of problems having to deal with an unforeseen complication when you're actually playing.

Sane: Some people enjoy their kinky play when they have had a couple of drinks or after engaging in recreational drug use. There is nothing wrong with this per se, however you should bear in mind that excessive consumption can have a detrimental effect on your judgement such that you could end up doing something which seems like a good idea at the time, but then turns out to be dangerous, at which point you are left trying to rectify the situation with adrenaline competing with your stimulants which is not an idea situation.

It's best to keep your consumption down to a level at which your judgement is not impaired or, if playing with multiple participants, have a designated safety person who will remain sober and whose job it is to keep an eye on everyone else just to ensure that nothing goes wrong or anyone gets over-enthusiastic.

Consensual: The most important aspect of BDSM play, since any activities which are undertaken without consent could be considered to be abuse and not conducive to a trusting and mutually satisfactory session.

As such, we recommend that BDSM sessions, especially with people you've never played before should be done with pre-arranged Safe Words and with Negotiation Documents or, at least, prior discussion of what will or will not be done during a scene to ensure that everyone enjoys what is going on.


What does RACK mean in BDSM play?


RACK stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink. This was a term which came into use because some people felt that SSC was too prescriptive since some people are happy to play in a manner which involves a certain about of risk, provided it is done within acceptable limits.

It acknowledges that nothing can ever be 100% safe, but as long as the participants are aware of the risks that are involved and have agreed beforehand that they are acceptable, then the play can continue.

As with SSC, of course, the Consent term is the most important in that if any participant feels that the dangers are getting beyond the limits which they are happy with, then the BDSM session can be halted or the type of play changed to ensure that all involved feel safe.

It has been argued that Safe, Sane and Consensual could be considered to be the "minimum standard" of acceptability for ethically defensible play, suitable for those who are new to the scene, whereas RACK is a more "advanced" term for experienced practitioners, although where the line is between the two is a matter of personal feelings for all those involved.

Whatever you do, provided informed consent is sought and obtained from all involved, your play can avoid being considered to be abusive.

Once you have considered the above, feel free to enjoy your BDSM with leather bondage and discipline equipment or any other toys you might enjoy, confident that your scenes will be safe and fun.

Do you think we've covered everything here?


We hope we've provided you with some helpful information about SSC and RACK, but have we missed anything out?

Do you think that there's something we didn't cover at all (or in sufficient depth)? Or did we get it all right?

We would welcome your comments and observations below.




What is BDSM and what does it mean?



An introductory guide from Affordable Leather Products

Although, in this post 50 Shades of Drivel Grey world, BDSM is becoming more mainstream, it is regrettable that books and films like FSoG (as well as other bad movies and TV programmes) have resulted in more misunderstandings about what BDSM actually involves, so here's a short introduction which, I hope, will explain it a bit more clear up some of those misunderstandings.


What does BDSM mean?


The term first appeared in a Usenet posting back in 1991 (long before the advent of the internet) and is an acronym which stands for Bondage and Discipline/ Dominance and Submission/ Sadism and Masochism (although some people prefer Slave and Master/ Mistress for reasons which I'll explain later). The letters overlap not just because it's neat (and shorter and easier to pronounce than BDDSSM!) but because there are overlaps between the aspects of the term.

It expanded on the old expression "S&M" because not everyone was into Sadism (the infliction of pain or suffering on someone) and/ or Masochism (the enjoyment of pain or suffering) and people recognised that there was more to the world of Kink.

What is Bondage and Discipline?


Bondage is, as most people understand, the act of restraining someone physically. This can be done simply with ropes, chains, leather straps or cuffs, handcuffs etc, however there are also more "advanced" (for want of a better term) methods such as leather armbinders, strait jackets, sleep sacks and so on. Bondage and Discipline items such as these can be bought from suppliers such as Affordable Leather Products in the UK. You can also use cling film (saran wrap), duct tape or even just restrictive clothing such as corsets to gain the same effect.

Discipline is often thought of as just using physical punishment (spanking, for example) or suede floggers which have a thuddy sensation or leather whips which have a stingy effect to control (consensually) someone's behaviour, but it is actually much a broader topic since it starts off with rules being set and rewards or punishments being assigned for breaches of those rules.

The punishments need not involve the aforementioned physical punishment, an experienced practitioner may be able to control their subject with nothing more than a verbal reprimand or, if preferred, with a humiliating act. For some, just the knowledge that they have failed to obey the rules assigned to them may be sufficient.

What are Dominance and Submission?


Dominance

This is the act (whether physical, mental or emotional) of having power over another person. In a power exchange relationship, the submissive gives their Dominant control over them. This is generally done within agreed limits, eg in the bedroom or for the duration of a session, although some people enjoy what is known as "Total Power Exchange" or 24/7 where the dominance does not end after a session is concluded.

Submission

This is the flip-side of Dominance, since, for someone to be dominant, someone else must be submissive. Again, the submissive may give up their power to (ie allow themselves to be controlled by) a Dominant for an agreed period of time such as a play session or only whilst in the bedroom or, alternatively, on an on-going basis in a 24/7 Total Power Exchange relationship.

What is Sadism and Masochism?


Sadism

From the works of the Marquis de Sade, sadism involves the infliction of pain or suffering on another, however in BDSM this is, again, generally done within prescribed limits, sometimes with the use of a Safe Word which allows the person on the receiving end to stop or ameliorate the scene if it becomes too much for them.

Masochism

Another term derived from literature, this time from the works of Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, which covers the recipient enjoying receiving pain or suffering (which can include mental anguish, rather than physical sensation) as part of a consensual scene.

Slave and Master/ Mistress


As mentioned above, some people dislike the reference to terms such as Sadism and Masochism because of the negative connotations that are associated with them (eg the media referring to a "sadistic crime"), so they prefer alternative terms with consensual "slavery" with pre-arranged limits, BDSM Negotiation Documents, and Safe Words being put in place to ensure that things do not get out of hand and nobody is made to do things that they definitely don't want to do.

What are the rules of BDSM?


If there is one rule that should always be remembered in BDSM it is that of consent. All acts should be fully consensual with both parties being able to stop a scene at any time. This is most important since, if it is not observed, it risks going into the realms of abuse. This can often be done with a BDSM Negotiation Document (see the link above) where the recipient can state what activities they are or are not interested in and to what extent they would like them done unto them.

What are SSC and RACK?


SSC stands for Safe, Sane and Consensual, RACK stands for Risk Aware Consensual Kink. They are different ways of looking at BDSM, however the most important factor in both is that consent is at the heart of them.

These are covered in an article by Affordable Leather Products "What are SSC and RACK" which can be found here.

Have we missed anything out?


Although this is only a brief guide, do you think we've overlooked something important that should have been mentioned?

Is there something we didn't cover? Or did we get it all right...?!

Please do post your comments and observations below.




Tuesday, 6 October 2015

Giant Leather Strap-on Dildo Harness






Click here to see our NEW Affordable Leather Products BDSM blog, hosted on our own website...


A while back we were asked to make a custom Leather Strap-on Harness to hold a Giant Dildo for Mistress DomStrapon and Mistress Carmen Rivera.


Now we thought "this is nothing new, we've made custom harnesses before", but then we found out the size of the Titan Dildo involved, which was about 14" long by 4" around (brings tears to our eyes just thinking about it)!

Not only did we need to make a strap-on harness for a huge dildo, but it needed to be capable of being secured with one hand so the wearer wouldn't require assistance to get it in place. Also, of course, we had to make sure that the extra large dildo would not pull out of the harness when it was in use, a tricky situation indeed.

Still, we were up for the challenge and after a fair bit of work, thinking, designing and redesigning, we came up with a design which we were happy with.

What we created was a 4" wide leather belt (with soft edging for comfort as the weight of huge dildos tend to drag the harness down) with long buckle straps at each side. This would allow the wearer to fasten one side of the harness at the appropriate tightness, then step into it and, holding the weight of the heavy dildo in one hand, use their other hand to tighten the straps on the opposite side to keep it all in place.

Additionally we put an adjustable padded under-crotch strap on the harness to make things comfortable for ladies.

The front panel has a large hole for the dildo to slide through, then an adjustable leather strap acts as a collar around the base of the sex toy ensuring that it will stay in place and not slip through the front panel.

We made this harness for the Titan Dildo, however we can also make harnesses for the Great American Challenge Dildo or other huge sex toys.

If you want to buy the Strap-on Harness for Giant Dildos, please click this link to go to our website.

There are a couple of pictures of the Leather Strapon Harness showing the massive dildo below...



UPDATE!

We made one of these for Miss Julia Taylor @missjulia2013 on Twitter and she has kindly agreed to allow us to use her pictures in this blog post so you can see the Giant Strap-on Dildo Harness in action.

The Dildo is the XXXL Seahorse dildo from Mr Hankey which is 8.75" in circumference near the head and goes up to an eye-watering 15" circumference at the base! Not only that, but it has a 15.25" insertable length too to give your anal sluts a really full feeling...






You can find Miss Julia's website here


Don't forget to click this link to see Affordable Leather Products' BDSM blog, on our website...


What do you think?


Does the look of this harness excite you or make your eyes water? Do you think you'd like one used on you or are you a Mistress who wants to use one and thinks one of your slaves should buy one right away!

Do let us know your thoughts in the comments below...




Monday, 20 July 2015

Back in Stock - Stainless Steel Collars, Armbinders and 5 Tail Quirts

We're pleased to announce that we have some of our favourite products back in stock now!

Firstly there are our Locking Stainless Steel Slave Collars

These are always popular because not only are they made from chunky 10mm 304 grade Stainless Steel, but they are shaped to curve down and rest on the collar bones, distributing the weight and making them much more comfortable for long-term wear.

They are available to fit neck sizes from 12" (30cm) up to 18" (45cm) and come with the padlock and keys included.

Then there are the wonderfully restrictive Single Sleeve Armbinders (sometimes known as Monogloves or Turkey Trussers!)

These hold the arms securely behind the back and keep naughty slaves from playing around. Not only that, but the ring on the bottom allows the arms to be lifted up putting the wearer in a perfect position for a spanking or flogging...

Speaking of flogging, we also have our Five Tail Quirts back in stock too. These have a braided leather handle and five 18" (45cm) long thongs made from quarter inch (6mm) wide and 1/8th inch (3mm) thick leather thonging at the business end for a very stingy impact!

You can get all of these or buy leather bondage gear on our website.

Here are some pictures of them...





Testemonial from a happy customer!



Having been making leather bondage gear for over 20 years, we occasionally get requests from customers for items which aren't in our normal range.

So it was a few weeks ago, when we had a request for a set of custom made Buckling Leather Arm Bracers with rings on, rather than the usual studs that such things tend to have and, after looking at what the customer required, we thought they were a nice idea and something that we could make, so we quoted a price which he gratefully accepted and we proceeded to make them.

We sent them out a few days ago and got on with other things, but we were pleasantly surprised when we received the following e-mail from him...

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Graham... Thank you for introducing me to a bold brand new feeling. I gotta tell you it's bloody weird but awesome to see something I wished made and 'Boom', it's a thing. It's a feeling I am most welcome to and for good reason. The Arm Bracers fit perfectly. They're comfortable and actually present a few other ideas to me now, now that I have them on my arms and can touch them.

To conclude, I love them. They're perfect yet it is a weird feeling having something asked for made and appear so according to specifications. Bravo Graham, you're a marvel.

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It's always nice to be appreciated and knowing that someone is enjoying our products is a good feeling for us too :-)

Here are a couple of pictures of the Bracers:




Thursday, 16 July 2015

We're expecting a delivery of new toys today including Stainless Steel Slave Collars, Whitehead and Jennings Dental Gags and Single Sleeve Armbinder.

Unfortunately we've just heard that the courier won't be delivering them until after 5pm, so there's no chance of getting items which have been ordered out into the post today :-(

Still, check our Leather Bondage Gear site out tomorrow for updates!

Sunday, 12 July 2015

"How to be an anti-porn campaigner" (Well, maybe not really...)



The title of this article is actually a bit misleading, it's actually well worth a read as it shoots down a lot of the "anti-pornography" arguments you often see trotted out in the media:

How To Be An Anti-Porn Campaigner